Misdiagnosis

Meme: Phoebe and Joey conversation

P: I'm autistic, so I depend on people to help me survive in social settings

J: You're autistic, so you depend on people to help you survive in social settings

P: I have found very few safe people to help me

J: You have found very few safe people to help you

P: I also feel emotions more intensely than others

J: You also feel emotions more intensely than others

P: When I lose someone, I feel intense fear and grief

J: So you're borderline

PS: This is not meant to insult or judge anyone that is borderline. It's expressing frustration with receiving hurtful treatment because the underlying issues are not the same.