Ok What's Up With Federated But Shadownbanned Instances like Kbin?

I've checked, when I comment on news@kbin.social it does not show up on kbin.social/m/news, but they stilll kind of show up as federated?

idk if I am banned, I don't recall breaking any rule...

This basically ends up being like a shadowban where I comment and it is only seen by EH users who look at the post

if this is how it is, how should we handle shadowbanned federation?