i designed a new pride flag for the queer community and shared svg images of it on my repo: [gay](https://codeberg.org/user0/gay) ___ # Queer Symmetry Flag ___ The Queer Symmetry Flag combines queer pride flags in an attempt to represent all queer identities in an elegant new design. In contrast to other flags, this one builds onto the [Transgender Flag](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transgender_flag) which represents all queer [gender identities](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_identity), and so: >The pattern is such that no matter which way you fly it, it is always correct, signifying us finding correctness in our lives. ~[Monica Helms](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Monica_Helms) [\[53\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pride_Flag#cite_note-transcastro-53) A rainbow, representing all queer [sexual identities](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_identity) and [romantic identities](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Romantic_orientation), refracts through the Transgender Flag, symbolizing the interconnections of gender, sexuality, and romanticality, how gender identity can shape sexual and romantic identities. Brown and black stripes, representing black, indigenous, (and) people of color (BIPOC), extend from the inner part of the refracted rainbow, wrapping around the [Intersex Flag](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intersex_flag), which "symbolizes the right to be who and how we want to be" in the fight "for bodily autonomy and genital integrity" of all [intersex](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intersex) people ([Morgan Carpenter](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Morgan_Carpenter)).[\[23\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pride_Flag#cite_note-23)[\[24\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pride_Flag#cite_note-24)[\[25\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pride_Flag#cite_note-25) In some versions of The Queer Symmetry Flag, the Transgender Flag peeks through the area containing the Intersex Flag, symbolizing the interconnections between intersex identity and gender identity, how intersex people can identify as trans-feminine, trans-masculine, non-binary, or something else entirely. ___ The Queer Symmetry Flag exists in three main variants - classic style, triangular design - alternative style, a unique new hexagonal design - heart style, a unique new heart-shaped alternative design There are a few versions of each style, including a simplified version in which the Intersex Flag fills the area containing it.
-Emma- 2mo ago • 100%
i was referring to the meaning behind the poem as well as the act of sharing it publicly like this
-Emma- 3mo ago • 100%
Even on mbin where I can't see your pronouns, your username itself is Emily. There's no excuse for their behavior.
-Emma- 3mo ago • 100%
I'd love to know why you think it's okay to insult her like that.
-Emma- 4mo ago • 100%
matrix regular here, vouching for uni: confirmed legit ✨💖✨
the waves crashing down are a terrible thing but the sounds on the shore where the little birds sing can be all that i need to keep going despite all the troubles surviving the ocean at night i want to keep going; i cannot concede to the violence within causing me to recede i know that i can't always gain what i seek but i know not how to escape from such a bleak and foreboding dismay of ideas in my mind and the fairy tale ending that's so hard to find the journey itself is a battle it seems but there's hope in my heart to fulfill all my dreams and i think that i must not sink further below this struggle is real and i can still feel the undertow but i will go on
-Emma- 4mo ago • 100%
looking at your pics, i am unable to even imagine you as anything other than a cute girl ✨🎀✨
and i'm completely serious about my envy 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
-Emma- 4mo ago • 100%
i think i'm starting to unravel my attachment issues and the reasons i pull away from those i love
i try to escape when it feels like i'm being pulled down and i don't know how to get out of here being held under the surface fighting for a purpose igniting several verses as it all goes gray i fear for today and the promise of tomorrow there's bound to be sorrow i wish i could borrow the power to eliminate this dread and despair and somehow to repair myself it's almost too much to stay where i am to battle my demons to debate why the land that i know is the road to no- where and if i can somehow overcome this now and keep from being pulled down again i'd still have to try to make a break for the shore and i don't know what to do anymore i'm trapped on the floor watching waves crash above but i'm guided by Love
-Emma- 4mo ago • 100%
OMG WTF!!!
HOW are you this GORGEOUS?!?
that figure! the long thick flowing hair! those legs! and then the dress, bow, and socks to show it all off!!
my envy burns 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
(seriously wtf, you are ✨gorgeous✨)
-Emma- 4mo ago • 100%
Have you been in a codependent relationship?
i can tell you about my last relationship privately, but it was obviously very different to your current situation
LGBTQ people are some of the most caring, sweet, and loving people
without question, i know this to be true of you
Just get started and follow what calls you
as you unearth your true self and undergo the journey into that unsettling unknown, don't let the uncertainty upset your unending urge for authenticity and self actualization
i send you love 🪄✨💖💜💗💜💖✨
-Emma- 4mo ago • 100%
Hi 😊 Apparently DMs between Lemmy and Kbin/Mbin still do not work, so I can only see DMs from other Kbin/Mbin users.
I've sent you a DM from my Lemmy account.
-Emma- 5mo ago • 100%
i wouldn't call that a weapon, in the context that it was used. more of a specialty tool and now a symbol.
-Emma- 5mo ago • 100%
at this point, i'm not planning to go. i have no one to go with me, don't own or feel comfortable having a weapon, and live in a generally unsafe place (Louisiana). i'll attempt to go to a support group next month. right now i have no one.
-Emma- 5mo ago • 100%
i still don't even have a Blahaj. i would much rather cuddle with a person though.
-Emma- 5mo ago • 100%
i've never gone, and this encapsulates some of my many fears and doubts.
i'm really sorry that happened to you, and i hope that you have real friends in your life now that are there for you ❤️
-Emma- 5mo ago • 100%
i don't think i'm gonna go to public events, but i did at least find a local support group, and i'm gonna try to go there.
(idk when, or even if, i can return to the matrix side; i don't know why. but i wanna make sure y'all know i'm okay.)
-Emma- 5mo ago • 100%
wanna talk about it? i feel like i'm in a similar emotional state right now.
-Emma- 5mo ago • 100%
Are you planning to go to any Pride events? You don't have to be out. Typically, everyone is welcome.
How do you feel about Pride? Plan on going to any events?
-Emma- 5mo ago • 100%
very much looking forward to it Nev 💖
-Emma- 5mo ago • 100%
Thank you for making this community ❤️
I hope that Nev has something to share here soon 💝
Hi, I'm Emma (she/her). So, long story short: * I am lonely * I wanna befriend some local LGBTQ+ people here in southeast Louisiana * I can't send/receive direct messages to/from Lemmy users with this Mbin account, but I have a Lemmy account I can use if necessary About me: * I'm a 90s kid * I'm a trans girl * I began transition, including HRT, January of 2023 * I suffer from OCD * I'm a Linux nerd, kinda * I use PureOS on my Librem 5 * I use QubesOS on my Librem 14 * I use pfSense on my firewall/router * I'd like to think that I'm somewhat good at writing I'd love to meet some LGBTQ+ people, but I don't know how. The only support group I've found is exclusively online via Zoom, and only Facebook users are allowed. As a privacy and security obsessed person, I'm totally excluded, and I just feel so trapped right now. I want to meet people offline, and I just don't know how. And I'm really sad right now thinking about how much I love the friends I've made online in the past few months and how I feel so isolated from them. It hurts to post this, but I feel that I must. I don't expect to find anyone, but I have to try. ### Edit: DMs between Lemmy and Kbin/Mbin still do not work, so here is my Lemmy account: @Emma0@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Hi, I'm Emma (she/her). So, long story short: * I am lonely * I wanna befriend some local LGBTQ+ people here in southeast Louisiana * I can't send/receive direct messages to/from Lemmy users with this Mbin account, but I have a Lemmy account I can use if necessary About me: * I'm a 90s kid * I'm a trans girl * I began transition, including HRT, January of 2023 * I suffer from OCD * I'm a Linux nerd, kinda * I use PureOS on my Librem 5 * I use QubesOS on my Librem 14 * I use pfSense on my firewall/router * I'd like to think that I'm somewhat good at writing I'd love to meet some LGBTQ+ people, but I don't know how. The only support group I've found is exclusively online via Zoom, and only Facebook users are allowed. As a privacy and security obsessed person, I'm totally excluded, and I just feel so trapped right now. I want to meet people offline, and I just don't know how. And I'm really sad right now thinking about how much I love the friends I've made online in the past few months and how I feel so isolated from them. It hurts to post this, but I feel that I must. I don't expect to find anyone, but I have to try. ### Edit: DMs between Lemmy and Kbin/Mbin still do not work, so here is my Lemmy account: @Emma0@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Hi, I'm the total mess known as Emma, and I'm currently a little overwhelmed with things. So, long story short: * I started HRT January 2023 * I desperately need bottom surgery as soon as possible * I'm worried that I should have been doing electrolysis instead of laser * I'm worried about wait lists for surgery * I'm worried about the costs of surgery * I need to find a surgeon * I'm interested in evacuating to a safe state on the west coast * I feel overwhelmed with everything that I need to do There's so much going on for me right now, and I'm seeking input from everyone here with something to say about any of my struggles. Thanks ❤️
Hi, I'm Emma! If you recognize my avi from Matrix chat rooms, yes I'm ***that*** Emma. 😊 Ada and others can verify that I'm legit. So, long story short: * I am lonely * I wanna befriend some local trans people here in southeast Louisiana About me: * I started HRT January 2023 * I have ESP! (Estrogen Spironolactone Progesterone) * I'm a Linux nerd * I use QubesOS I'm making this post here, because this is a much bigger audience than the Matrix chat rooms, but I am also nervous. I know the odds are still against me, but I have to try. ### Edit: DMs between Lemmy and Kbin/Mbin still do not work, so here is my Lemmy account: @Emma0@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Hey, so I'm on a different instance, and I hope it's not out of place for me to post here. I really like Mbin for its design and features, and I made this account specifically for interacting with LGBTQ+ posts. Anyway, there are a few things I'd like to discuss, if that's okay. First, I'd like to know if it's necessary for me to report posts if they've already been reported on Blahaj. Like, is it just a federation delay that causes the bad posts to still be visible for a while, or is my reporting necessary to get them removed? I've noticed that the recent troll posts are coming from `lemmy.today` and `eviltoast.org`, and I'm wondering if these instances should maybe be considered for de-federation from Blahaj. It seems like one or two users are ban-evading by making new accounts on these two instances. Are there any legit users that would be affected by this de-federation? Also, I wonder if I made a mistake by boosting a few threads recently. Like did I accidentally get the attention of these transphobes? Should I refrain from boosting? Again, I hope it's okay for me to post this here.